Last December, I attended the first event organised by a newly created Bangladesh Government agency whose creation was long demanded by progressive activists. Not unexpectedly, the programme started a bit later than the scheduled time. A fellow Drishtipat writer -and I were sipping tea in one corner when an elderly gentleman walked up to us and introduced himself. I greeted him and introduced myself. He returned my salaam, and completely ignoring my friend, walked away.
I was totally taken aback. My friend has extensive experience in the field, with field experience in places like Gaza, Afghanistan, and Nepal. I was there only because another friend got me a pass. But the gentleman completely ignored HER, as if SHE wasn’t even present. My friend saw the reaction in my face, and said how this was nothing new to her.
Perhaps I shouldn’t have been surprised. After all, that male chauvinism is deep rooted in Bangladeshi society was nothing new to me. Imagine my surprise then to see the gentleman sitting in the stage, as the chairman of the agency that is supposed to fight precisely this sort of disdain for half the humanity!